DISQUS

The Marketer Who Went Off Consumption: Let Me Introduce You To Some of My Less Fortunate Selves

  • Kay · 1 year ago
    Know what you went thru in your teenage years! Dad raised hell if a male classmate called, and there was curfew. Had to be home by 7 pm latest and going out for the movies in a group that had guys was a no-no! But such were those times! And our parents, well, their generation was so different!
  • Asfaq · 1 year ago
    Wow... I love the way this has been written... everyone likes to root for the under-dog but quite frankly, you have earned mine.

    PS: am not calling you a dog... not at all
  • Anonymity · 1 year ago
    This is the first post on this blog that I really liked. Nearly as much as I liked your old blog (not diary, the old, old one on Wordpress).

    Your deja vu made me wonder if you remembered what I said about your proposed dollarless dates.

    Whether, or not...I still hope this year to come turns out to be good for you in every way you wish.
  • Vimal George · 1 year ago
    I'm inspired.

    I'm just a spoiled single child nerd who lately dreams about buying a BMW, whenever he gets stuck in traffic using public transport.

    Frugal living FTW.
  • blr bytes · 1 year ago
    They say success is not so much where you've reached but what you've overcome to get there.

    One of your better posts, G.
  • Gaurav Mishra · 1 year ago
    @Kay: It's funny how little we learn from our parents' mistakes. I'm a little worried that I'll be a total control freak as a father.

    @Asfaq: Thanks. I like being the underdog.

    @Anonymity: I remember what you said about my zero dollar dates --

    You'll not want to date the women who'll be okay with the idea, and the women you'll want to date will want more.


    Three zero dollar dates later, I'm happy to say that it isn't so. :-)

    @Vimal: Don't be hard on yourself, my friend. Consumption follows a marginal utility curve and each one of us are on a different curve.

    @Blr Bytes: That's what I say to pull myself up every time I feel I haven't done enough with my life.

    @Blr Bytes/ Anonymity: Thanks. It was a difficult post to write. In fact, it happened after almost a week of reluctant start-and-stop writing. It's always difficult to acknowledge your demons.
  • Suchi · 1 year ago
    This is the first really interesting post on this blog. So, here's some honest feedback for you! :)

    This post explains some things I winced at earlier--I'm not a big fan of hype, unless it's backed up by substance.

    I'd like to see more like this, because, to me, living economically in India is not an unusual enough occurence to warrant interest. Your zero-dollar dates, for example, are not different from the outings of many middle-class people. I think it might be good if there more of your own ruminations/struggles rather than specific entries. It's not so much what you did as how you felt doing it.

    On a technical note, I wish you'd use less self-referential hyperlinks as it disrupts the flow a bit. Also, it's a bit hard to use the category tags to navigate--your tag pages seem set up to only show one post. For example, try clicking on Zero Dollar Dating. It's a bit hard to figure out how to then navigate to your first post on the subject.
  • riddhi · 1 year ago
    this was an honest, touching post. it gave me context to your experiment, and helped me understand the reasons a little bit better. i agree with suchi - the best posts are those that include your ruminations/struggle/challenges.
  • Anonymity · 1 year ago
    I'm almost never glad to be proven wrong. This is one of those exceptions. And I kick myself for not remembering your photographic (verbal?) memory for doomsday prophecies.
  • Gaurav Mishra · 1 year ago
    @Suchi: I'm glad you liked the post.

    As I have said before, there’s no virtue in ‘not having’ something in the first place; the only virtue is in ‘giving up’ something you already have.

    So, yes, I know that most Indians are still coming to terms with consumption, but that's not the point. The point is that I see an emerging sub-culture -- primarily in Europe, but also in North America -- in which well-to-do people are saying that they are 'tired of' consumption. I hope you see that not being able to consume is different from being tired of consuming. This sub-culture hasn't become visible in India yet, but it will, in less than 10 years. That is the trend that I'm trying to explore with my experiment.

    Yes, the theme has also evoked extreme reactions, as the rest of the blog. Some like the extreme simplicity, some don't. I do see that it is difficult to navigate, and I intend to do a little tweaking very soon. :-)

    @Riddhi: Thanks for the kind words and the great article.

    @Anonymity: :-)
  • Ace · 1 year ago
    I'm surprised you even bothered to respond to that post. Sounded like a lot of sour grapes to me.

    I enjoyed reading your response though =)
  • X · 1 year ago
    I survived three years of graduation in Delhi on Rs. 3000 per month ($60 then) and that included rent, food, travel, clothes, books, and long distance telephone calls to my girlfriend.

    This is not bad at all. Having to wear your Dad's shirt probably is. Having to wait until 17 before holding a girl, doesn't sound too late. You are making a big deal of nothing. When you are a student you have less money. When u start earning u have more. You were middle class before and now upper middle/ upper class now. Whats the big deal.
  • Gaurav Mishra · 1 year ago
    @Ace: Thanks.

    @X: Well, fortune is a relative thing. I'm sure $60 a month is enough for a lot of people. I'm also sure that $10,000 a month is not enough for a lot of people. So, I don't know if I am making a big deal out of nothing.
  • curious cat · 1 year ago
    Dear Gaurav, came here, post hopping from later posts. I am still trying to understand the value of your experiment. I believe that you might learn much as a marketer, but all this "individual's quest to escape the ennui of consumerism" and so on, still sounds like a load off bull*$#@ to me.

    On this post, is n't what you are describing about the standard thing that all of us went through when we were growing up? And was it really that bad when you had not tasted wealth? Do you not think you are coloring the memory darker shades of grey due to your present?

    PS: apology for long comment.
  • curiouscat · 1 year ago
    Ok, I take back what I said earlier. I thought about your experiment again over brandy last night (Yes I am jobless), and I can now see its value.